Years ago I heard the great social researcher and author Hugh McKay describe every persons view of the world as the sight they see from behind the bars of their own experience, background, training and ideas.

The more developed are all these barriers, the more and thicker the bars between you and the outside world.

For marketers setting out to engage those who are most unlikely to be like them, this creates a dilemma.

How do you remove the bars, and see the world as your prospective customer would?

The demons in your mind will try and convince you that the world is as you see it, and at the very least, they will allow only a modest number of modifications without a significant level of discomfort to you.

Human beings connect easily to those who are most like  them. This is a unifying factor of evolutionary biology. It ensures that as we evolved, the small communities in which we evolved could be secure, or at least as secure as possible from the beasties lurking in the undergrowth.

While we may understand at a logical level the nature of those we are setting out to influence, at a primal level, we struggle to align our thoughts and words to theirs, we remain wedded to our own instinctive patterns and prejudices.

We all value truth, love, and life, but the means of expressing those values will be different. In understanding and relating to the differences, despite our own deeply held views, lies the marketing gold of true empathy. It all comes down to the language you use. Not just the verbal one, which is  the default, but the whole range of non-verbal channels, which according to many studies contributes more than 50% to the interpretation the receiver makes of the message.

Trying to sell renewable energy technology to someone who believes fossil fuel is the only answer to the consistent delivery of baseload power is challenging, as is trying to convince a conservative Christian that same sex marriage is OK.  

Overpowering that lurking demon that demands you see the world of your customer in a particular way is fundamental to being successful.

 

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