The “P-word” simile

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Talking with a couple of mates over a beer recently, one of whom has a successful boutique recruitment agency, we found ourselves reflecting on the changes in word usage that had occurred over the last 20 years, and how we had contributed to the changes, most of which we did not feel were improvements.

A few examples.

“Gay”. A friend of mine at school was named Gaye, lovely girl, great fun, bet she has changed her name.

“Like”. It actually used to mean something, rather than acting as a tool of verbal punctuation.

“Green” used to be a really nice colour, not a political label.

The kicker for me was “passion”.

I have been guilty, there are several posts over the years talking about how important passion is, so I have made a contribution to turning this word into a management cliché

Do we have to be passionate about everything? Cooking. Suddenly we have to be passionate about cooking, when sometimes cooking is just to refuel, and jobs. A quick look at any jobs site will tell you that to be considered you must be passionate about your job, the mission of the enterprise, collaborating with others, and so on, Sometimes, a job is just a job, it pays the bills, keeps the kids occupied , and with luck delivers some intellectual and emotional support.

“Passion” has become a cliche, and has an unfortunate simile, Pretentious.

If you really want someone to be passionate, to make the emotional investment you are seeking, you had better give them a very good reason, because passion is a very private emotion, not given easily.

 

Customer expectations paradox.

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What do I do now?

 

The great paradox in selling is that to sell successfully, we often raise the expectations of those to whom we are selling, but to have satisfied customers, we need to under promise and over-deliver.

Complicating that dilemma of the potential mis-match of promise and delivery is that people hear what they want to hear, filtering out stuff that is inconsistent, unexpected, off their personal radar, or is just uncomfortable, while interpreting and exaggerating the stuff they want to hear. This particularly applies to sales outside the expertise of a customer.

Flicking through the TV channels last night, a bit slower than usual, I saw (another) ad for some sort of home training device that promises to deliver me the body of an Adonis in 10 minutes a day with little effort. A classic case of over promising if ever I saw one, but I guess someone is sucked in every minute, or they would not be aired.

Wonder if the poorer suckers ever get their money back? Guess not, but they do get to keep the flab.

The only antidote is to build a brand that customers trust. To do that you need to deliver on the value proposition consistently, over a considerable period, and act with honestly, humility and transparency. Big call for  the “fat-be-gone” industry.

Three simple rules of blogging

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Hunt around in Google, and there are thousands of posts out there giving you lists of things to do to have a successful blog. A few Are pretty good,  but most a just lists of the blindingly obvious, hoping that the headline “Top 20 tips for success” and their ilk attract attention.

My contribution to the  pile is a really simple list of three:

  1. Know who you are talking to well enough to, well, talk to them. It is after all just a conversation.
  2. Be original, relevant, interesting, and engaging, by reading widely, building on the ideas, looking for angles and unexpected applications, and offering connections to your readers.
  3. Do not forget rules 1 and 2.

Pretty simple, but like most seemingly simple things, there is much to distract from the simplicity that needs to be distilled out, hard choices need to be made, and focus found.

Never easy, but rewarding.

 

 

Digital is just a cost of business.

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Who in business does not carry a business card of some sort, from the standard 9 X 5 bit of cardboard to the “it” thing of a USB with a resume, and published material as well as contact details on it?

It used to be that having a business card was just a cost of being in business, just like an office, some furniture, a phone line, the sign over the door, and so on.

There is a new one, the cost of an online presence.

Like all things, some do it better than others,  make it really work for them,  but if you want to be in business in the 21st century, you have the entry cost of a digital presence just to keep the doors open.

At the basic level, an online presence, a website, twitter account, facebook page is a  it like the old business card, it is the first reference point people have for you, but they are not much more, and can be counterproductive if not done with a reasonable level of professionalism.

Two thirds of Australian SME’s that do have a “presence”  take a DIY route, using family, friends,  or the office intern to create and manage their digital presence, with  the attendant problems, but almost half still do not have any presence at all. None! Nada! How can that be in 2014?

There are increasingly widely available the tools to make it relatively cheap and easy for SME’s to have a web presence, the starting point of successful marketing. Services like those provided by my old” tech-head” mates at Imagehaven, who as a part of their service menu, offer a great entry level service backed up by deep technical knowledge.

Would you go to a network meeting without a business card?

 

Why do you Trust?

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Trust is a word that keeps on coming up, everywhere.

Increasingly in a complicated world we are looking for those we can trust, to do business with, to have as friends, or just to share a cup of coffee.

I have just completed a project of chain re-engineering that did not deliver all the hoped for outcomes, but during the debrief process, the word “trust” and its foundations that in this case proved to be a bit   fragile,  loomed large. Similarly, a friend of mine is selling her house, retiring to the south coast, and she appointed an agent from a small number in her local area, and as it happens, one of the unsuccessful bidders was also a friend of mine, someone who I would get to sell my house, when the time is right, because I trust her.

Got me thinking about the components of trust.

It seems there are four headline components, which is good for me as a consultant, as I can conjure up a quadrant and deliver it as a deep intellectual exercise. However, the reality is that it is common sense, just like most consultants quadrants, but common sense that paints a picture, that delivers a perspective, and makes you think.

    1. Engagement. You do not trust those with whom you have no experience, who have not earned that trust. You may think they are trustworthy, but would you confide your pin number to them?, there is a difference. Engagement of the type that generates trust happens over time, is a two way process shared equally by both parties, and is devoid of ambiguity and hidden agendas.
    2. Integrity. It becomes clear over time that the positive  behaviour that builds trust is not just for the benefit of the chosen few, but is based on a “personal code” of some sort that extends to those not closely engaged. The individual or enterprise concerned consistently puts the interests of those with whom it interacts above its own short term interests, and it acts the same way to everybody, irrespective of their status. They “walk the talk,” always.
    3. Operational excellence. This sounds business-like, but is just as applicable to individuals. Summed up it simply means that they never over-promise and under-deliver, what you get is what you saw and at least what you expected, but usually is more than you could have reasonably hoped for.
    4. Fit for purpose. The product or service is the right one for  the purpose for which it has been delivered, and there has been an effort to ensure that the purpose has been defined sufficiently by both parties to ensure that the  product was the right one for the circumstances.

Back to my chain exercise. When I look at it dispassionately, the parties had insufficient  opportunity and incentive to build the trust in each other that was necessary. Individually, they trusted me, as I knew them all, spent considerable time articulating the process, and have a history with several, but they did not know each other well enough to offer the  real  trust we were looking for.

And to my two friends who did not do business. The house seller went with an alternative that offered an up front incentive, it seemed  to reduce the cost of selling. When the process is over, her house of 30 years which is the only substantial asset she owns has been sold,  I suspect she  will wonder if the agent  delivered her  a buyer that just made his life easy,  a cut price, quick and easy sale that delivered him an easy commission, in return for the added costs he incurred up front, all wrapped up in the clichés of the real estate agent. Had she trusted my agent friend, it is quite possible that she would have delivered them a buyer, just the right buyer who wanted the house because of what it was, not because the price was great, the cash benefit of which would have been to dwarf the up front saving that was made.

During the research for this post I put “trust” into several dictionaries,  and the options for a definition are many and varied, according to the context. No wonder we have difficulty.

Complete me

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“You complete me” a really cheesy line, made famous by the Jerry Maguire movie, but relevant elsewhere.

Communication devices have exploded over the last decade, most of us now have multiple tools by which to communicate, but just how well are we doing it?

Pretty poorly by my count.

We spew stuff out, and sometimes some of it comes back on us, good and bad, but are we actually communicating?

Isn’t communication supposed to be a two way process, something that engages the parties,  grows, informs, adds value ?

Tools are only useful when well used, communication devices by themselves are just objects, they need people, stories, and emotion to be of any value.

Communication tools need people to complete them.